Everyone always joked that we’d need color-coded wristbands just to tell them apart. So we got them – green, orange, yellow. Three perfect little copies, right down to the gap in their front teeth.
They finished each other’s sentences. Had their own language. Shared everything. It was like raising one soul in three bodies.
But a few weeks ago, Orange – Marcus – started waking up crying. Not from nightmares. From memories. That’s what he called them.
He’d say things like, “Remember the old apartment with the green mailbox?” We’ve never had a green mailbox.
Or, “Why don’t we go to Mr. Hessler’s shop anymore? He always let me pick a caramel.” We don’t know anyone named Hessler.
Last night
The Night It Stopped Being Cute
Last night he sat up in bed at 2 a.m. and asked me where Daddy’s other family went.
My husband, Greg, was standing right behind me. We’d both heard it through the monitor. I felt him go still in a way I can’t quite describe – not scared exactly, more like the air went out of him.
Marcus wasn’t upset when he said it. He was calm. Sleepy-eyed, hair pushed flat on one side, Popsicle stain still on his chin from earlier. Just asking, the way kids ask why the sky is blue. Like the answer was obvious and he just needed confirmation.
We didn’t answer him. I said, “Go back to sleep, bug,” and he did.
Greg and I stood in the hallway for a long time after that. Neither of us said anything.
What Started It
The wristbands came when the boys were eighteen months old. Our pediatrician thought it was funny. Our mothers thought it was practical. We thought it was both.
Green is Daniel. Quiet kid. Builds things. Has been building things since he could hold two blocks simultaneously – towers, then roads, then elaborate systems he’d explain to us in dead seriousness.
Yellow is Paul. The loud one. Laugh like a seal, runs everywhere, has never once walked through a doorway when he could sprint through it instead.
Orange is Marcus. The middle one, technically, by four minutes. He’s always been the one who watched. The other two would tear into a room and Marcus would stand in the doorway first, taking stock. Greg always said he was the old soul.
We moved into our house – the one we’re in now – when the boys were eight months old. Before that, we rented a two-bedroom on Cranmer Street. First floor unit. Red brick building, metal mailboxes in the lobby. The mailboxes were silver. I remember because I scraped my knuckle on one the day we moved in, carrying a box of kitchen stuff.
No green mailbox. Never a green mailbox.
I’ve been back through photos. I’ve looked at the building on Google Maps. Silver. The whole row of them, silver.
The Hessler Thing
I made the mistake of googling Hessler.
I don’t know what I expected. Nothing, probably. Some reassurance that it was a made-up name, the kind kids conjure from nowhere.
There’s a Hessler’s Dry Goods on Portman Avenue. It’s been closed since 2019. Before that it operated for thirty-one years, according to a local business profile that came up in the search. The owner was a man named Gerald Hessler.
The article had a photo. Small shop, wooden shelving, a glass counter near the register. And on the counter, one of those old-fashioned candy jars. The kind with the wide mouth and the silver lid.
I sat with my laptop for probably ten minutes just looking at that photo.
Portman Avenue is six blocks from Cranmer Street.
I haven’t told Greg about that yet. I don’t know why. I’ve been carrying it around for four days like something I’m not ready to put down.
What the Other Two Know
I asked Daniel and Paul separately, without Marcus in the room.
Daniel didn’t know what a green mailbox was. Didn’t know any Hessler. When I asked if Marcus ever talked about stuff from “before,” he scrunched his nose and said, “Before what?”
Paul said, “Marcus has weird dreams,” and then immediately asked if we had any more of the good crackers.
So it’s just Marcus.
That’s the part that keeps me up. If this were some shared thing, some game the three of them cooked up – I could breathe easier. Kids make up elaborate stuff. They collaborate on fictional universes with the total commitment of method actors. I’ve watched these three convince themselves a cardboard box was a submarine for six straight hours.
But Daniel and Paul don’t know anything about it. And when Marcus talks about Mr. Hessler or the green mailbox, he doesn’t look like he’s playing. He looks the way he looks when he’s telling me about something that actually happened. There’s no performance in it. No checking to see if I’m impressed.
He just looks confused that I don’t remember.
Greg’s Theory
Greg thinks Marcus overheard something. A podcast, a conversation between adults, something on TV left on too long. He thinks kids are like sponges and Marcus specifically is the kind of kid who absorbs ambient information and files it away without knowing he’s doing it.
It’s a reasonable theory. I’ve repeated it to myself several times.
But Greg didn’t see Marcus’s face the morning after the green mailbox comment. I was alone with him. Greg had already left for work. Marcus came downstairs, sat at the kitchen table, and while I was making his eggs he said, very quietly, almost to himself, “I dreamed about the mailbox again. We used to race to it. Me and Daniel and Paul. First one there got to open it.”
I said, “You mean at our old apartment?”
He shook his head. Not our old apartment. The one before. The one with the stairs outside.
We’ve lived in two places. The current house and Cranmer Street. Cranmer Street had interior stairs. No outside stairs.
I put his eggs in front of him and I said, “Was it a nice place?” and I don’t fully know why I asked that. Just wanted to keep him talking, I think.
He thought about it. “It smelled like outside,” he said. “Even inside it smelled like outside.”
Then he ate his eggs and asked if Paul had used the bathroom yet because he needed to go.
The Appointment
My friend Donna, whose kid went through a sleep regression at four that nearly broke her, mentioned something called a child psychologist who specializes in what she called “unusual childhood experiences.” She said it carefully, like she was handing me something fragile.
I made the appointment. It’s in two weeks.
In the meantime I’ve been writing everything down. Every comment Marcus makes, the date, the time, what he was doing before he said it. I’ve got half a notebook now.
Some of it is mundane. He mentioned a dog named Biscuit. He asked once why we stopped having Sunday dinners with the cousins – we’ve never had Sunday dinners with cousins, we barely see Greg’s brother, my family does a thing at Christmas and that’s basically it. He said his old teacher’s name was Mrs. Patton and that she smelled like lemons.
Some of it is less mundane.
Last Thursday he told me he remembered being very sick once. He said he was in a bed that wasn’t his bed and there were flowers on the wallpaper. He said Daniel and Paul came to see him and they weren’t allowed to touch him but they held his hands through the blanket.
He said it like it was a good memory. Like the hand-holding was the important part.
I had to leave the room after that one.
What I Actually Think
I don’t believe in past lives. I want to say that clearly because I think it matters that I say it. I’m a middle school science teacher. Greg’s an electrician. We are not mystical people. We watch football and argue about whether the dishwasher actually cleans the bottom rack and we go to bed too late and wake up too early and that’s our life.
But I also can’t explain Hessler’s Dry Goods on Portman Avenue, six blocks from where we used to live, with the candy jar on the counter.
I can’t explain the outside stairs.
I can’t explain “Daddy’s other family” said in a sleepy calm voice at 2 a.m. by a six-year-old who has never, to my knowledge, had any reason to know that phrase.
Greg and I have been solid for eleven years. Whatever Marcus meant, I don’t think he meant anything about Greg specifically. I think he was somewhere else when he said it. Behind his own eyes but somewhere else.
That’s what scares me most, actually. Not what he’s describing. The fact that when he describes it, he’s not quite here.
The appointment is in twelve days. I’m keeping the notebook.
Last night, before bed, Marcus asked me if I thought people could remember things that happened to somebody else.
I asked him what he meant.
He said, “Like if someone was done with their memories, maybe they give them to someone new.”
I tucked him in. Kissed his forehead. Turned off the lamp.
In the hallway, I put my back against the wall and I stood there until my legs felt normal again.
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