That weekend felt perfect. No screens, no stress, just the five of us packed into a pedal boat, drifting across the lake like we used to when we were little.
The twins were goofing off in the front, trying to splash each other. I was stretched out in the back, half listening to their laughter, half watching Dad pedal with that quiet smile of his. But something was off.
He kept checking his watch.
Not once. Not twice. Constantly. Like he was racing something none of us could see.
“Dad, chill,” I finally teased. “You’ve got nowhere else to be.”
He smiled, but didn’t answer.
Later,
The Kind of Trip We Hadn’t Taken in Years
Later, when we pulled the boat back to the dock, he was the first one out. He tied the rope himself, which he never does. Usually he just tosses it to whoever’s standing there and lets them deal with it. This time he crouched down, looped it twice around the cleat, and tugged it tight like he was making sure it would hold.
I didn’t think much of it then.
We’d driven up Friday night, all five of us crammed into Mom’s old Subaru with the busted AC vent that blows directly into the driver’s left eye. Dad drove the whole three hours. The twins, Danny and Cara, fought over the aux cord for the first forty minutes and then fell asleep on each other’s shoulders like they always do, pretending they hate each other right up until they don’t.
Mom had packed sandwiches. Real ones, not the sad gas station kind. Turkey with the good mustard, cut diagonally the way she’s done since we were in elementary school. I ate mine in about four bites and then stole half of Danny’s because he was asleep and I have no regrets.
It was the first trip like this since Cara’s graduation. That was two years ago. We kept saying we’d do it again, kept picking dates and then letting them fall apart. Work, school, the usual drift. But Dad had called me in March and said, “We’re going to the lake in June. Clear your calendar.” Not asked. Told.
I cleared my calendar.
Something He Wasn’t Saying
The cabin was the same one we’d been renting since I was nine. Same sticky screen door. Same smell of pine and old carpet and that faint mildew coming from the bathroom that Mom pretends isn’t there. The owners, a couple in their seventies named Roy and Barb, had left a pie on the counter with a note that just said welcome back, Kellermans. Blueberry. Dad’s favorite.
He saw it and stood there for a second with his hand on the counter.
Just stood there.
“You okay?” Mom asked.
“Perfect,” he said, and meant it, or at least tried to.
That night we played cards until almost one in the morning. Dad won three rounds of Rummy and was obnoxious about it in the best possible way, doing this terrible victory dance every time that made Cara laugh so hard she spit out her drink. I took a video on my phone. I almost didn’t, and then something made me. I don’t know what.
He was checking his watch then too. I saw it when he thought I wasn’t looking. Quick glance down, then back to his cards, like he was tracking a timer only he could hear.
What Nobody Said Out Loud
The thing about my dad is that he doesn’t do drama. He’s a fix-it guy. Broken faucet, he fixes it. Bad situation, he finds the angle, addresses it, moves on. He doesn’t sit with things. He doesn’t brood. So when something is actually wrong with him, you almost can’t see it, because he’s so good at just continuing to function.
He’d told us back in February. Matter-of-fact, the way he tells you anything. Sat us down at the kitchen table, the same table where he used to help me with math homework, and said the words. I won’t write them here. I’ve written them enough in my head.
The doctors were optimistic, he said. Which is what doctors say.
There would be treatment. There was a plan. He was not, he told us firmly, going to become a sad story. He refused.
And then he booked the cabin.
I think I understood even then what the trip was really about. I just didn’t let myself finish the thought. There’s a thing you do, where you know something and you just sort of… don’t. You keep it in your peripheral vision, never look straight at it. We were all doing that, the whole weekend. Even Mom, who knows everything and usually says it. We were all just choosing the boat and the sandwiches and the blueberry pie.
The Watch
Saturday afternoon, back on the water, I finally asked him straight.
“What’s with the watch?”
He looked at me. Then out at the lake. There was a family of ducks working their way along the far bank, a mother and five or six little ones in a line behind her, and he watched them for a second before he answered.
“I set a reminder,” he said.
“For what?”
He turned the watch face toward me. There was a small alarm set. Every hour, on the hour.
“Just to look up,” he said. “I’ve been setting it every hour. To make sure I look up.”
I didn’t say anything.
“I spent a lot of years not looking up,” he said. “I’m trying to fix that.”
He wasn’t being dramatic. He wasn’t making a speech. He said it the way he says everything, flat and direct, like he was just reporting a fact. And then Danny splashed Cara and she shrieked and grabbed the side of the boat, and Dad laughed, and that was it. Conversation over.
But I kept thinking about it. Every hour, on the hour. A man who fixes things, trying to fix the one thing that had always slipped past him. Not the diagnosis. Not the treatment. Just the looking up. Just the paying attention.
I started counting the alarms after that. We had four more hours on the water. Four more times that watch would buzz against his wrist, and four more times he’d glance down, confirm it, and then look up at whatever was in front of him.
The twins racing to the dock. Mom’s hand trailing in the water. The way the light came down through the trees on the east bank, going gold the way it does around five in the afternoon.
He looked at all of it. Every time.
After the Lake
We drove home Sunday evening. The twins slept again, same as the drive up, Danny’s head eventually landing on Cara’s shoulder. Mom drove this time. Dad sat in the passenger seat with the window cracked, his arm resting on the door, watching the highway go by.
I sat behind him.
Every hour, on the hour, his watch buzzed. I could hear it faintly in the quiet of the car. And every time, he’d look out the window. Or back at the twins. Once, at Mom. He didn’t know I was watching him do it.
We got home around nine. He carried in the cooler and the bags and then stood in the driveway for a minute, looking up at the sky. Just standing there. I almost said something, and then didn’t.
He went inside. I stayed in the driveway a little longer.
The treatment started three weeks after that. It’s been hard in the ways those things are always hard, and I won’t dress it up. But he’s still setting the alarm. I know because I asked him, a few months in, during one of the visits. He showed me his watch. Still there. Every hour.
“Does it help?” I asked.
He thought about it.
“It reminds me that there’s something to look at,” he said. “That’s enough.”
I’ve started setting mine too. Not every hour. I’m not there yet. But some days, when I remember, I set it for noon. And when it goes off, I stop whatever I’m doing and I just look at whatever’s in front of me.
It’s usually something ordinary. A parking lot. My desk. The ceiling of the car.
But sometimes it’s something worth seeing. And I figure the only way to catch those is to keep looking.
One More Thing
There’s a picture from that weekend. Mom took it without any of us noticing, which is the only way she ever takes good pictures. It’s the four of us on the pedal boat, Danny and Cara mid-splash, me laughing at something, and Dad in the middle of it all with that quiet smile.
His eyes are up.
He’s looking at us.
Not at his watch.
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If this one got you, pass it on to someone you’d want on the boat with you.
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